Archive for January 2006

Mentoring and Discipleship

A good friend from church, and a gentleman who was the Elder in charge of youth ministries when I was the senior high teacher, asked me if I considered teaching again. While he said he understood that I felt a need to take a break from youth ministries, he also felt that I had a gift of teaching that shouldn’t be wasted. Now I’ll be the first to admit, I love to teach. I love to get people into a lively conversation and help facilitate and hopefully lead everyone to the same conclusion, or at least one on which they will reflect upon further. I’ll also admit that I don’t think I’m any great shakes when it comes to teaching. Words don’t come to me easily. I would never make a great debater, I just don’t think that quickly on my feet. I have a hard time listening to someone during a class without trying to think about what me next response is going to be. In other words the idea that someone thinks I’m good at teaching leaves me completely humbled. I honestly believe that if someone gets anything out of my teaching it’s because God is guiding me.

With that said, I have desired to teach again, not so much because I want to teach but because I have a subject in mind that I want to discuss. Like Tim Challies I have a strong desire to be mentored. But I can’t even imagine going around to the older gentlemen in church and asking if one would be willing to mentor me. When I think about doing this I get an image in my head of Oliver Twist standing before Mr. Bumble with his bowl out asking for more. MORE!? So what better way to bring this concept home to the men at my church than to have a class on the subject of Mentoring and Discipleship? At least IMHO I think it’s a good way to get the ball rolling. Of course that means that I might/should be mentoring a young man. ME?!, mentor someone?! Why would anyone want me as a mentor?! With those thoughts running through my mind I have to wonder if most mentors don’t feel the same way.

Anyhow, I want to teach a class. I want to encourage the men at my church to mentor one another, become prayer partners, be encourager’s, accountability partners, iron to sharpen iron and a strong shoulder to lean on in times of trouble. Sounds good doesn’t it? But, where to begin? This is where this becomes a post that I hope others will respond to. I need a good outline for a class. Resources that you may feel are appropriate. I’m not that interested in buying a package (Promise Keepers, The Core) unless it comes highly endorsed. I don’t want a bunch of Christian pop psychology. I need to come up with a class that is 9 weeks long (that’s the length of sessions at our church). If anyone can suggest some books to read I’d greatly apprectiate it. If you’ve ever done something like this at your church, what worked, what would you have done differently, have you been able to make it a part of your church’s life?

Peace,
Rong

Lotusphere 2006

The Swan Hotel - Disney World The flight down was a bit of a pain – figuratively. I don’t fly very often and I forgot just how small airline seats can be. I had two wonderful ladies sitting on either side of me, who both slept the whole way down :-) . Once we landed we had to sit on the tarmac for 20 minutes waiting for a gate to clear, then we all got to the luggage carousel only to find out that all of AirTrans flights were using the same one. So… there were 3 flights all trying to get their luggage at the same time. Thankfully we were all griping together and working to grab bags off for people who were 3 rows behind those at the front. Of course then I had to wait 20 minutes to get a Mears bus to the Dolphin at Disney World where I’m staying. OK, the view from my room made up for the trip to get here. ACK I hate to travel.
So last night I was pretty beat after getting down here. Missed dinner with the boss and had to lone ranger it instead. OK, I hate dining alone also! Crashed and burned at 9:15.

This morning I woke at 6:00 and got ready for a full day of seminars. I actually got to hear 2 really good ones and one that was a bit of a snooze.

  • The first one this morning covered a brief overview of the Workspace Designer client (I know my usual readers are just deleted by this juicy piece of news) and how easily it creates a J2EE component. I’ve been trying to stay as far away from Java as possible but this IDE looks like it may sway my fears. though from past experience, I still have my reservations (can anyone say Lotus Knowledge Discovery System?)
  • The last seminar was on Microsoft Office integration with Lotus Notes. Very fast paced, lots of great code examples and I came away with a couple of great ideas that I’ll have to follow up on when I get back to the office.

    Now I’m kicking back, taking a bit of a break before tonights big shindig (read party) which really kicks things off.

    Till tomorrow – peace,
    Rong

    Geek Festival 2006

    I’m heading to a huge geek festival in a couple of hours. Held every year at Disney World, Lotusphere pulls in 1,000′s of Lotus Notes developers and administrators for a week of seminars and hands on simulations. This is only the second time I’ve gone and while at first I didn’t think that I’d be too excited about it, I must be…

    Haven’t slept since 4 this morning and I feel like a kid just before Christmas.

    I’m going to try and do some blogging about it while I’m down there and see if I can get some pics.

    Peace