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Invitation to the Pain of Worship

The preoccupation of my mind the past few years has had two central themes: How do I educate my children and how do I properly worship God?

Recently I discovered an interesting convergence of those two themes provoked by reading an essay by Mortimer Adler called “Invitation to the Pain of Learning” and by attending dissimilar worship services back to back one Sunday morning.

In Adler’s essay, which was published in 1941, he laments the state of education at the time which was seemingly more committed to a child’s pleasure than to a child’s habits of learning. His opening paragraph outlines his concern:

“One of the reasons why the education given by our schools is so frothy and vapid is that the American people generally-the parent even more than the teacher-wish childhood to be unspoiled by pain. Childhood must be a period of delight, of gay indulgence in impulses. It must be given every avenue for unimpeded expression, which of course is pleasant; and it must not be made to suffer the impositions of discipline or the exactions of duty, which of course are painful. Childhood must be filled with as much play and as little work as possible. What cannot be accomplished educationally through elaborate schemes devised to make learning an exciting game must, of necessity, be forgone. Heaven forbid that learning should ever take on the character of a serious occupation-just as serious as earning money, and perhaps, much more laborious and painful.”

His rebuke is scathing and is still relevant today. His rebuke continues – “The trouble also lies in the fact that agencies of adult education baby the public even more than the schools coddle the children. They have turned the whole nation-so far as education is concerned-into a kindergarten. It must all be fun. It must all be entertaining. Adult learning must be made as effortless as possible-painless, devoid of oppressive burdens and of irksome tasks.”

Adler goes on to describe one of the motivations for this educational method. “We try to make adult education as exciting as a football game, as relaxing as a motion picture, and as easy on the mind as a quiz program. Otherwise, we will not be able to draw the big crowds, and the important thing is to draw large numbers of people into this educational game, even if after we get them there we leave them untransformed.”

Adler prescribes a rejection of this mentality if education is to be reformed. He says,

“Not only must we honestly announce that pain and work are the irremovable and irreducible accompaniments of genuine learning, not only must we leave entertainment to the entertainers and make education a task and not a game, but we must have no fears about what is “over the public’s head.” Whoever passes by what is over his head condemns his head to its present low altitude; for nothing can elevate a mind except what is over its head; and that elevation is not accomplished by capillary attraction, but only by the hard work of climbing up the ropes, with sore hands and aching muscles. The school system which caters to the median child, or worse, to the lower half of the class; the lecturer before adults-and they are legion-who talks down to his audience; the radio or television program which tries to hit the lowest common denominator of popular receptivity-all these defeat the prime purpose of education by taking people as they are and leaving them just there.”

The gems from Adler’s essay go on and on so I encourage you to read it for yourself however I must move on…

With these thoughts about education “elevating my mind” I had the opportunity to attend two worship services back to back this past Sunday morning.

The first service at 9:30 am followed more the contemporary style of worship. It was a very pleasant service. The music was soothing. The songs were delightful. The mood was reverent and peaceful. It was an easy service. And I left untransformed. The second service I attended was in the liturgical style. It too had the same elements of reverence and peace. However, the songs were difficult. The scripture readings were long. The responsive readings and the confession of sin were complicated with difficult words and archaic styles. I struggled to stay focused. It was a plain hard service. In one sense, as Adler might put it, it was painful.

But I was transformed… a little at least…and it left me wanting more. It reminded me of the time back in college when, with a few other buddies, I ran the steps at the football stadium. Anyone who’s been to Lane stadium at Va. Tech knows how high the steps are on the student side. We started at one end and ran up the steps all the way to the top then back down the next aisle over until we had gone completely across the stadium. The last aisle was an upward run. When I reached the top of the stadium in that final aisle I was totally exhausted. I had absolutely no energy left. I had given everything I had to complete it and it was nothing but sheer pain to accomplish. But standing at the top of Lane stadium after completing that feat was one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life. I was enraptured at the accomplishment. The euphoria coursing through my body can hardly be described. The gain was certainly worth the pain.

I wonder if in our worship services we’ve remained in a state of immaturity fearing the work of worship (by the way the word liturgy comes from a Classical greek word which means “work”) I wonder if we’ve considered that our pop cultural mandate to make everything entertaining and pleasant and easy has kept us from realizing real transformation that only hard work and labor can accomplish. I wonder if our laziness and excessive need for amusement has kept us in a perpetual state of adolescence in our approach to worship while ultimately missing a real transformative experience of our Creator.

Perhaps we need to be reminded of our invitation to participate in the fellowship of His sufferings, to take up our cross and follow Him, to buffet our bodies and make them our slaves, to fight the good fight of faith, to endure hardship as good soldiers, to run with endurance the race before us – perhaps we also need an invitation to enter into the pain of worship…

Lessons from 1784

William Cowper wrote a poem to a friend to discourage him from sending his son away to school rather than tutoring him at home. The poem is called Tirocinum . (which is latin for something but don’t ask me I went to public schools)

It is rather long so if you just want to get to his main point I’ll post that below:

To you, then, tenants of life’s middle state,
Securely placed between the small and great,
Whose character yet undebauch’d, retains
Two-thirds of all the virtue that remains,
Who, wise yourselves, desire your sons should learn
Your wisdom and your ways—to you I turn.
Look round you on a world perversely blind;
See what contempt is fallen on human kind;
See wealth abused, and dignities misplaced,
Great titles, offices, and trusts disgraced,
Long lines of ancestry, renown’d of old,
Their noble qualities all quench’d and cold;
See Bedlam’s closeted and handcuff’d charge
Surpass’d in frenzy by the mad at large;
See great commanders making war a trade,
Great lawyers, lawyers without study made;
Churchmen, in whose esteem their best employ
Is odious, and their wages all their joy,
Who, far enough from furnishing their shelves
With Gospel lore, turn infidels themselves;
See womanhood despised, and manhood shamed
With infamy too nauseous to be named,
Fops at all corners, ladylike in mien,
Civeted fellows, smelt ere they are seen,
Else coarse and rude in manners, and their tongue
On fire with curses, and with nonsense hung,
Now flush’d with drunkenness, now with whoredom pale,
Their breath a sample of last night’s regale;
See volunteers in all the vilest arts,
Men well endow’d, of honourable parts,
Design’d by Nature wise, but self-made fools;
All these, and more like these, were bred at schools.
And if it chance, as sometimes chance it will,
That though school-bred the boy be virtuous still;
Such rare exceptions, shining in the dark,
Prove, rather than impeach, the just remark:
As here and there a twinkling star descried
Serves but to show how black is all beside.
Now look on him, whose very voice in tone
Just echoes thine, whose features are thine own,
And stroke his polish’d cheek of purest red,
And lay thine hand upon his flaxen head,
And say, My boy, the unwelcome hour is come,
When thou, transplanted from thy genial home,
Must find a colder soil and bleaker air,
And trust for safety to a stranger’s care;
What character, what turn thou wilt assume
From constant converse with I know not whom;
Who there will court thy friendship, with what views,
And, artless as thou art, whom thou wilt choose;
Though much depends on what thy choice shall be,
Is all chance-medley, and unknown to me.
Canst thou, the tear just trembling on thy lids,
And while the dreadful risk foreseen forbids;
Free too, and under no constraining force,
Unless the sway of custom warp thy course;
Lay such a stake upon the losing side,
Merely to gratify so blind a guide?
Thou canst not Nature, pulling at thine heart,
Condemns the unfatherly, the imprudent part.
Though wouldst not, deaf to Nature’s tenderest plea,
Turn him adrift upon a rolling sea,
Nor say, Go thither, conscious that there lay
A brood of asps, or quicksands in his way;
Then, only govern’d by the self-same rule
Of natural pity, send him not to school.
No—guard him better. Is he not thine own,
Thyself in miniature, thy flesh, thy bone?
And hopest thou not (’tis every father’s hope)
That, since thy strength must with thy years elope,
And thou wilt need some comfort to assuage
Health’s last farewell, a staff of thine old age,
That then, in recompence of all thy cares,
Thy child shall show respect to thy grey hairs,
Befriend thee, of all other friends bereft,
And give thy life its only cordial left?
Aware then how much danger intervenes,
To compass that good end, forecast the means.
His heart, now passive, yields to thy command;
Secure it thine, its key is in thine hand;
If thou desert thy charge, and throw it wide,
Nor heed what guests there enter and abide,
Complain not if attachments lewd and base
Supplant thee in it and usurp thy place.
But, if thou guard its sacred chambers sure
From vicious inmates and delights impure,
Either his gratitude shall hold him fast,
And keep him warm and filial to the last;
Or, if he prove unkind (as who can say
But, being man, and therefore frail, he may?),
One comfort yet shall cheer thine aged heart,
Howe’er he slight thee, thou hast done thy part.

That was wonderful…

Last night the family was privileged to go to the the local elementary school “Spring Concert”. The program was split between a number of pieces performed by the strings orchestra and the band. In between each set the principal of the school got up and extolled the excellence of the performances we had just been privy to.

Now I know what I’m about to say is rather harsh and sensitive mother’s out there should not read any further since it’s their little Johnnies and little Suzies that I’m referring to but what I heard last night was not excellence. In the spirit of giving everyone a chance the concerts brought together everyone in the elementary school who had parents savvy enough to find cheap stringed instruments from eBay and dress their children up in what passes for “finery” these days. (The girls we’re wearing skorts and the boys had their clip ons)

The entire experience was akin to persevering through an hours worth of tedious plodding blackboard scratching. (remember blackboards??)

I’ve heard a few of the individual children play in different venues and I have been amazed at their talent however when the entire pack is put together those talents are obscured by the mediocrity of the rest. Which last night for me turned into a critique of our cultures egalitarian silliness. Surely if we want to proclaim something excellent and wonderful it ought at least first be excellent and wonderful. Instead we call the horrible wonderful. Why not have a competition and reward those who by their diligence in practice and due to their natural talent actually excel? Instead we call them all wonderful together and cheapen the entire idea of excellence.

To quote that sage of the modern world – Dash from the Incredibles – If everyone is special then nobody is.