Archive for piety – Page 2

Dreamers

We are all dreamers. It’s one of the characteristics that sets us apart from the rest of creation. We are visionaries. We see things thru our minds eye that we have never seen, nor which we have accomplished and yet we form, mold and attempt to create them into being. And we seemingly do this with every aspect of our lives. We envision getting out of school, having particular careers, being in relationships, and having certain possessions. We see ourselves in future eras of our lives and then try to create a path that will get us there. We are our own playwright, the world is our stage and everyone else is an actor in our production. But that is where we get into trouble.

We want to be the god our lives.
“Not so”, you say.
“Who me?! Try to be God?! Why I would never do that”
And yet as we cast our vision on our future we attempt to do just that. And no matter how much you may want to deny that you’re playing God, the truth is we all are.

But it’s how we’re made. We are visionaries because we are created in the image of God. God, being the greatest dreamer, visionary and creator has imparted that same ability to us. Paul David Tripp in his book, Lost In The Middle contends that God gave us this gift so we could see past the reality of this temporal world and thru his Word we would be lead to grasp who he is. That without our ability to envision that which we’ve never seen or even experienced we would forever be blind to knowing God or understanding his love for us.

The problem is we’ve taken this incredibly powerful gift and we’ve all misused it. Instead of dreaming of God and his glory we dream of our own, short lives. We cast the people around us as characters in our play and we are bewildered when they don’t perform as scripted. We imagine future expectations for ourselves and are crushed when the fail to materialize or are left with sorrow when they don’t provide the joy we were sure they would.

So what’s the take away? Are we to stop dreaming? The very thought is laughable, it’s like asking if should we stop breathing. I am always going to be a dreamer, but I have to put my dreams in a different perspective than I have in the past. I have to recognize them for what they sometimes are, humble myself to the pride that they can often create inside of me and be willing to rest in God’s sovereignty over my life.

I have a dream, am I willing to rest in faith that God has one for me too?

Faith leads me to believe that His is way better than mine.

Get Over Yourself

It’s so easy for me to buy into this worlds mind-set of unneeded wants and desires. I am after all a material girl man. The advertisements for the latest cars, or until recently motorcycles, can set my heart a flutter and my mouth salivating. Checking out my bosses $8K Mac Pro, I can envision all the kewl things I could program, create, do. Watching the latest House Hunters International show on HGTV makes me yearn for that beach house on Caicos and an early retirement. I can just imagine kicking back on the veranda sipping my umbrella drink – after all, I think to myself, “if we had THAT we’d be….(fill in the blank)”. Yes I need these things, well OK, I don’t really need them, I want these things because if I have them I’ll be… what? Happy? Joyous? Satisfied?  really???

Reality however has a way of rushing over these delusions/allusions/fantasies like a tsunami. Thankfully the good Lord in his mercy didn’t allow the flood waters to wash over me. Instead God has had other people share their all too real – realities with me.

While I can thankfully say that:
I don’t have my in-laws living with my family in a house not really designed to hold that many people.
I don’t have a mother-in-law who just found out she has ovarian cancer. I didn’t have my spouse pass away a week before our 25th anniversary.
I didn’t have my 8 year old son killed in a car accident.
I haven’t had to live thru the pain of having a third pregnancy end in a still birth.
I do not have a pregnant 16 year old daughter to contend with.

What I do need to say is, “I have to get over myself and my petty little wants and realize how incredibly and undeservedly blessed I truly am.”  And it’s not for any of the reasons that I just listed.

What if my wife and I did need to open our home up to my widowed mother-in-law
What if my un-wed daughter broke the news that she was pregnant and the guy she just dumped was the dad?
What if my father suddenly developed dementia and I had that to deal with?
What if I were to lose my job tomorrow?
What if my world was turned upside down tomorrow morning?

And, in this fallen world we all know that something tragic can happen in the blink of an eye.  In all my “what-if’s” there is thankfully one who “always IS”.  He is my true blessing. My joy need not be in the material things of this world nor should my joy be found in personal comfort. My joy comes from a gift given to me by the grace of God thru Christ’s saving work on the cross and in the promise I now have of eternally living with Him.

 

2 Corinthians 4:18
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Sad Fasts Changed to Glad Feasts

From the venerable C.H. Spurgeon via the Miscellanies blog.

The Lord of life and glory was nailed to the accursed tree. He died by the act of guilty men. We, by our sins, crucified the Son of God.

    We might have expected that, in remembrance of his death, we should have been called to a long, sad, rigorous fast. Do not many men think so even today? See how they observe Good Friday, a sad, sad day to many; yet our Lord has never enjoined our keeping such a day, or bidden us to look back upon his death under such a melancholy aspect.

    Instead of that, having passed out from under the old covenant into the new, and resting in our risen Lord, who once was slain, we commemorate his death by a festival most joyous. It came over the Passover, which was a feast of the Jews; but unlike that feast, which was kept by unleavened bread, this feast is brimful of joy and gladness. It is composed of bread and of wine, without a trace of bitter herbs, or anything that suggests sorrow and grief…

    The memorial of Christ’s death is a festival, not a funeral; and we are to come to the table with gladsome hearts and go away from it with praises, for "after supper they sang a hymn" Matt 26:30, Mark 14:26.